That's what I did too! met a guy at a park and ride, had my friend who is a sniper seal special forces ranger do overwatch, He said the guy looked ok but was worried about the the 8 year who looked awful unscrupulous! it ended up all going ok! and we all made it out fine we both were members for over 6 years and both had good feedback, I had to cancel our first meetup do to an illness but we met up 1 month later and as described it went well. From these threads popping up I guess I've been to trusting as I've met up everywhere you can think of except a rest area...